In this how to video, you will learn how to break up with your girlfriend. First, you should make sure that problems have been building up. This is the initial part that should make you decide whether or not you want to go through with it. This includes your girlfriend nagging and complaining at you. If you are prepared to do this, the next part is the actually break up. You can approach your girlfriend in person and tell her it is over. Tell her why you are breaking up. Another method is breaking up with her over the phone. You can also leave her a note, although this is very middle school. You can even tell her when she least suspects it. The last part is making her know that it is finished. Make sure there is no doubt in her mind about it. You can try ignoring her. Also, do not leave any room for hope. If you are seeing someone else, tell her. Once these steps have been taken, you have now completed the break up.