There are common relationship blunders that are important to deal with in order to have healthy relationships. Don't get caught up in the media love hype. In the movies love is portrayed dramatically. It is easy to get caught up in movie love expectations. We have to have realistic expectations of our partners. It's also common to think that relationships are easy. Relationships require a lot of effort and compromise to keep them healthy. Another common mistake is to not be honest about your emotions. It's important to tell the truth. Don't give him the silent treatment. Finally you must ask for what you want. Your partner can not meet your expectations if he doesn't know what they are. You have to speak up and then your partner can work to meet your needs.